Yeah I've read about it.
Obviously violence against a spouse is shit and the guy might be a full of himself wanker...however:
The timing is predictable of the leaks being close to financial splits in a divorce.
Drugs and idiocy are rampantly in sports, his family and friends may have partied with him hence wouldn't hand him over to the union, the wife seems like an annoying nagging control freak who anyone would want to go out and get away from and its more a private matter than public.
Russell Crowe is a family friend and I'd hazard a guess that he would be protecting him or trying to not get involved by the wife.
If it affects the game then fair enough but in this case, he got fed to the media because someone was out for revenge or money.
Happens a lot, shit happens so hopefully going to court will sort it out.