Keeloverandfly
Bluelighter
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- Feb 22, 2022
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Sexuality is what people make of it. If you are interested in maintaining a high sexuality later in life, for some it means doing more work. There are hormonal reasons for sexuality to taper off with age, but these can be treated to a certain extent. Unfortunately there are medication side effects that can impair sexuality, and that is a trickier subject, as it is hard to justify stopping life prolonging treatment for the sake of libido. But then there is how one cultivates one’s sexuality. I think open and creative minds can enjoy an ever developing sexuality until the end of their days. Their is no limit to what the mind can do, and that is our most important sexual organ.
Unfortunately many men chalk up sex to penile performance. This is a problem, because it won’t necessarily last and because the penis, while easy to understand (ie no one teaches boys how to jerk off, compared to some women who can spend decades trying to figure out how to have an orgasm) is just the tip of the iceberg. Enter the prostate… men in their 60s-80s who get into prostate play describe a renewed sexual energy akin to that of their youth!
Of course everyone’s personal responses are anecdotal, but my 42 year old wife is at the peak of her sexuality and she says it gets better and better for her. And though I am only 36, and though my whole life has been one hot sexual fiesta (compared to hers, at least), I feel the same. That is, I frequently think to myself “THAT was hands down the best sex I’ve ever had.” And despite all the sex I’ve had, I often think to myself “huh I’ve never done/felt THAT before.”
Unfortunately many men chalk up sex to penile performance. This is a problem, because it won’t necessarily last and because the penis, while easy to understand (ie no one teaches boys how to jerk off, compared to some women who can spend decades trying to figure out how to have an orgasm) is just the tip of the iceberg. Enter the prostate… men in their 60s-80s who get into prostate play describe a renewed sexual energy akin to that of their youth!
Of course everyone’s personal responses are anecdotal, but my 42 year old wife is at the peak of her sexuality and she says it gets better and better for her. And though I am only 36, and though my whole life has been one hot sexual fiesta (compared to hers, at least), I feel the same. That is, I frequently think to myself “THAT was hands down the best sex I’ve ever had.” And despite all the sex I’ve had, I often think to myself “huh I’ve never done/felt THAT before.”
