Technically we are unmarried, just habit to refer to her as "wife"genuine question jackal does your wife know about you seeing prostitiutes? how you you feel if she did the same?
i never felt guilt over the punters with wedding rings but i always hoped their wives were getting some elsewhere too.
We have an agreement for over ten years now that we can both do what we want as long as 1: no relationship with others, 2: practice safe sex and 3: nobody/nothing comes home/all kept discreet
If she has a shag somewhere that's cool as long as above ^ is followed. It works both ways
So far that has been adhered to, and as mentioned earlier I am far less prolific this year and last compared to any year since 2007 or 2008, In fact I'm almost fucking celibate this year. Just me and my right hand. . .