So, there's this guy I've been seeing for around half a year now. Everything was great, we hit it off right away, we got on, had similar interests, could talk about absolute bs and have a good flirting:roast ratio and have been intimate a month or so after seeing each other, as well as meeting up at least once a week if not more which progressively went down to every weekend to every other weekend. Also, I have depression but I'm on meds and I'm doing really well on it and I don't usually go out on dates or anything as I was never really the type to go on a date with just anyone (lack of interest, motivation, yada yada yada), but there was just something about this guy. Now, Guy XYZ has been acting quite distant a few weeks ago now and about a week or so ago said that he needed space from everyone (which I can understand). I sent him a supportive message saying I'm always here when he's ready to talk etc - he read it and ignored it (but that was fine too given the circumstances). Messaged him a few days later asking if he's ok (he's been active on social media the whole time - not a problem obviously - but he's also been active on the texting platform we use but another few days had gone by and he still hadn'tt read the text or replied). So I left it again for a bit, but at this point I'm just like... what's going on... are we still dating... like is this his way of kinda ghosting me? Soooo.... I sent another text basically saying I don't know what's going on, are we ok and if he still needs space, if I should stop texting and wait for him to reach out to me etc and he finally read the texts and replied - he said he was sorry, he's just wanting and needing space, not from me but from everyone, he's been unhappy lately (no mention of where we stand, if I should stop texting, or if I should wait for his text when he's ready) - So I replied and said it was okay, I get it, I'm always here for him, no judgement and I just wanted to know where I stand basically - I didn't wanna push him for answers too much. Anyway, he read that text but didn't reply. So, again, I left it. It's been over a week altogether now, I sent him a text saying I'm still here for him, hope he's ok and that I miss him (obviously not expecting a reply, just wanting him to know he's missed and that I care - he hasn't been on that platform for a few days now but has still been on other social media platforms).
Basically I really like this guy, I know it's only been half a year-ish, and I would definitely want this to become something more serious and official. I just want to know whether I should hold on and be patient, to just completely stop texting until HE reaches out, or if I'm being stupid and should cut my losses? I've met his family and stayed round a lot, he can be a bit vague when it comes to his feelings and I'm quite expressive with mine, but that's not an issue.
Basically I really like this guy, I know it's only been half a year-ish, and I would definitely want this to become something more serious and official. I just want to know whether I should hold on and be patient, to just completely stop texting until HE reaches out, or if I'm being stupid and should cut my losses? I've met his family and stayed round a lot, he can be a bit vague when it comes to his feelings and I'm quite expressive with mine, but that's not an issue.