Well I've certainly done plenty of that. I probably cried most of the day for the first couple days.
Seems like only very recently where I've started to sometimes, maybe, go a whole day any not cry about it.
I also seem to sometimes, when it's late and my mental health isn't as good, sometimes I'll deliberately read either this thread or conversations I had with him, and that'll start me off again too.
I dunno. I know from experience that it will get better. Eventually. But it takes time.
I feel a giant mess of emotions. Sometimes just grief, sometimes guilt, sometimes I feel anger. I feel angry at him for all the times he brushed off our concerns that this might happen. Then back to guilt again. Guilt for not trying harder to be there for him, guilt for being angry that he wouldn't or couldn't let us help him.