I completely agree with you and the rest of what you said.I think almost every guy has tried this at some point.
I actually did it multiple times despite being a male hetero, and guess what, its not that horrible or disgusting, just swallow like a candy or something that's inside your mouth I don't see the big deal. Maybe you taste it for like 2-3 seconds and that's it.
The smell is a bit strong, but it goes away and anyway who cares, kinda like women's secretions. The taste? Same story, particular taste, but definitely not something like shit or repulsive... let's be real.
Its 100% "doable" without you crying like a bitch or "gagging" from disgust.
Not saying that it gives pleasure to the woman, instead, it can be VERY annoying especially if it goes on the hair and they have to remove all that sticky stuff...but if we are talking about mouth only... stop being kids and just swallow, no matter if man or woman or trans or whatever. You are doing it for the partner, not for yourself (mainly)
Also I find kinda disrespectful that "all my pleasure I had with you" goes spit out... like wtf? I am not saying that you need to cover your face and lick/act like a whore on pornhub, but just fucking swallow, it's not Aliens' Acid.
Same exact thing I can say about giving head to a woman. It doesn't give me exactly 100% pleasure especially if done with me doing ONLY that and her just staying there. I do it for her most of the time. And for sure it doesn't taste like Strawberries.
But yeah if the vagina could bust a load (not squirt), I would gladly swallow it with no problem.