when i broke up wit my with my gf, i diddnt talk to her much. i talked to her like 1ce or 2ce after the breakup and i then i isolated myself and diddnt talk to anyone for about a few months. then 1 day i planned doing sumthin with my friend (wich is also my ex's best friend) and i ended up inviting her and my ex over. it wasnt as awkward as i thought it would be, it was actualy pretty cool. well we started talking again, I still had feelings for her but i was determined to just stay friends. its been 6 months and now i have no feelings for her and we are BEST friends. i couldnt see myself living without her, i love her more now than i ever did when we were dating and i like it this way. keep working on the friends thing and try to ignore the fact that you still have feelings for him