As a bi guy I find it weird that so many women seem to find jizz disgusting. Even to the point of saying the very thought of swallowing makes them wanna throw up.
... I don't get it. I mean sure it's not exactly chocolate sauce, but neither is it disgusting. At least sperm from a healthy individual coming out of a clean dick shouldn't taste revolting, and if his does, then he needs to check his diet, hygiene habits and maybe see a urologist.
If you're a guy that's into guys, basically there is no 'spit or swallow' debate. You swallow as a matter of basic courtesy. Don't have to act like you're dying of thirst or anything, but it's generally considered both rude and kinda wussy not to.
Also I get annoyed when some women act like giving a blowjob is some big favour you have to earn, but in turn think their male partner should 'obviously' be prepared to eat them out. Nope. Despite what the poets say, it really isn't honeydew ladies, so if I do it to you then you can do it to me and not go 'blah'.
PS tip, if you wanna be a considerate lover don't eat chili, garlic or curry on the night you want intimate oral attention paid to your nether regions. Yeah it doesn't just show up on the breath..
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