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Women getting off

December Flower said:
Careful, I said beautiful, not equally so.
I'm just saying that beauty is more multi-facetted than physical attractiveness.
I've had women not even looking at me, then suddenly going crazy for me after hearing me sing.
Think us males should orient ourselves a bit more like that. I know it's difficult, because visual stimuli have a strong grip on us, but that grip does not have to be total.

So many beautiful women are together with an overweight guy, or physically unattractive guy,
because they weigh in more factors, and I'm sure for them it's also not easy to "settle" for someone they are not physically attracted to. Sometimes I get the feeling some men go for things like tit size, or pretty face, and that's it.
The tits make her a great person or something, I don't even understand it fully tbh. She totally pisses him off every second of the day, but "at least she's hot", I mean wtf even. The social status and visual stimulation is worth more than what kind of person she is?
Our society pressures women enough to look beautiful, and that is in a large part due to us men.
Even worse, it gives some beautiful women an excuse to be complete arseholes, because they're beautiful, and they know it.
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Very well said. There's a lot more to attraction than looks. Even for straight men, though a lot of us don't realize it or think about it. Looks are important, but as long as someone meets a certain minimum standard and you find them attractive then physical attractiveness should not be your main priority in finding a partner. I'd personally much rather be with someone I found somewhat attractive who had a good personality and treated me well than someone extremely attractive with a garbage personality who treated me like shit


dalpat077 said:
So I may as well bring the ship to shore and nail it into the ground:

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Sacha Baron Cohen never fails to get a laugh outta me.
 
arrall said:
I'd personally much rather be with someone I found somewhat attractive who had a good personality and treated me well than someone extremely attractive with a garbage personality who treated me like shit
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Well said my friend, I agree 100%

If you're in a serious relationship with someone, most of the time you spend with them isn't going to be having sex, it's going to be just hanging out basically. I don't know why anyone would choose to associate themselves with someone who they didn't like or respect (or who didn't like or respect them)

I don't know. It's hard to extrapolate what an entire gender wants, but I think most (straight) men crave feeling genuinely desired/appreciated/loved by women, and want more than just to cum in women or parade them around as status symbols. I know that people get into relationships for all kinds of reasons, whether they be pragmatic or sentimental or whatever else...and a lot of times people end up being attached to someone that they don't particularly like..but that's just my $0.02
 
jhjhsdi said:
Vibrator on the clit with one hand, fingers inside and rubbing the g spot with the other.
Tbf i used to get girls off without even touching the clit and just rubbing that g spot, but do both at the same time and you cant fail, especially if you have something in the ass at the same time (aka a butt plug or my schlong) 😁 💦

I'm horny now lol
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Naughty boy, my dear m8 😄🤣😂
 
dalpat077 said:
Well. Just look at you STUD. Maybe your technique and prowess in the bedroom could solve your cash flow problems if marketed right! :ROFLMAO:
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Porn taught me well 😂

Mate, i actually wish i could solve my money problems by getting women off, id quit my job and do it full time. I guess i need some sort of pimp or something lol
 
jhjhsdi said:
Porn taught me well 😂

Mate, i actually wish i could solve my money problems by getting women off, id quit my job and do it full time. I guess i need some sort of pimp or something lol
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Well in the interest of trying to help with the cash flow:

What about this onlyfans shit that everybody talks about? Or one of those cam sites? From some interviews I've seen there's some people making like SERIOUS $$$ out of that shit. And if you're lucky and you get an audience: you could always take it offline and meet up (for a fee of course) in real life.

Just trying to help.
 
Hexenstahl said:
Btw, men should definitely do Kegel exercises if they really wanna satisfy us women :u2:
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most definitely! women speak of and do these exercises, but sometimes if wonder if men even know they have these muscles
Physical Therapy Pt GIF by Dr Susie G
Conan Obrien GIF
 
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Robi said:
most definitely! women speak of and do these exercises, but sometimes i wonder i men even know they have these muscles
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I've tried them before and noticed some mild improvements but I doubt that I know any other guys who have. Unfortunately, they are certainly seen as something that's 'only for women'. Theoretically certain exercises in the gym that a lot of guys do (such as squats) strengthen the same pelvic muscles, but nothing is gonna work nearly as well as just doing kegel exercises.
 
Sweet Jane78 said:
Yes, I’m a woman. I wanted to see what other women had to say. Do others only get off when they use a vibrator? Or are there many who are able to stimulate their clit enough to reach orgasm using just their fingers. Maybe I should have made a poll. I’m new here, though so don’t know how to do that quite yet.
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I've done it like that b4 when ur with someone for a long time it's an ez hack so to speak,
 
Burnt Offerings said:
Well said my friend, I agree 100%

If you're in a serious relationship with someone, most of the time you spend with them isn't going to be having sex, it's going to be just hanging out basically. I don't know why anyone would choose to associate themselves with someone who they didn't like or respect (or who didn't like or respect them)

I don't know. It's hard to extrapolate what an entire gender wants, but I think most (straight) men crave feeling genuinely desired/appreciated/loved by women, and want more than just to cum in women or parade them around as status symbols. I know that people get into relationships for all kinds of reasons, whether they be pragmatic or sentimental or whatever else...and a lot of times people end up being attached to someone that they don't particularly like..but that's just my $0.02
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Yes, I agree with this as a straight guy, one of my biggest turn one in my girlfriend telling me how much she loveand appreciates me. My dick goesBOING!

Also because of all the drugs I take, I can usually get it up, but I have a lot of trouble having an orgasm, ir sucks but I definitely still want sex whether I can cum or not, the contact and love is more important, even if I can’t cum, I can still get that. And I can get her off, which makes me feel more confident. I love watching her squirm :)

On the upside, since I have so much difficulty orgasming, I can last a REALLY long time in bed, I think four hours is the record.

After yesterday she fell asleep directly after, she’s still asleep, but I guess she was already tired

I’ll count it as a win :) I feel like a vagina conqueror
 
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